By Fattyma Ibrahim "Vaginismus sounded like what I was experiencing, but I never let myself attach to the label." There's a particular kind of loneliness that comes with a body…
By Fattyma Ibrahim I think I'm going to love sex, I know my own body, what it does to me just from ovulating alone tells me enough. In this week's…
By Fattyma Ibrahim "It's not like you're a virgin, after all, you already have kids, what's the point holding back?" — Juwarriyah on why single mums are still fighting to…
Modern dating isn't just changing how we have sex. It's changing what intimacy, commitment and connection mean in the first place. "One person leaves a toothbrush behind; the other leaves…
By Fattyma Ibrahim As Pride Month draws attention to LGBTQ+ experiences around the world, it also provides an opportunity to revisit a growing body of Nigerian literature that explores questions…
